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Reply To Topic Topic: Can we talk for a moment about VBAC?
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Posted By on 01 Jul 2005 06:35 AM
I have a client who had what potentially was a "failure to be patient" cesarean last year. She is pregnant again and wants to VBAC, but her confidence was very shaken. They sold her the old "your baby was just too big" (9 lbs 1 oz, I think?) and that wasn't the only "fudging" of the truth that I witnessed - did I mention that they told her it was never going to happen and the baby would never fit, right at shift change on the Saturday morning of the holiday weekend? Yeah, someone wanted to go home...

Anyway! I think we have a lot of work to do, we meaning her, but I would like to help in any way I can. Reading TTWGTABB is number one on my recommended list for her, I've already given her the ICAN website (unfortunately there are no local chapters here in Dallas anymore), and I have found some care providers who will take VBAC's... although hospital birth in my area is nowhere even remotely Mother/Baby friendly, no matter who your provider is. Most providers won't even offer TOL anymore, though, so at least I found a few who would. I put her in touch with some midwives who offer VBAC's at out of hospital birth (birth centers and home). I believe there were at one time, some Birthing from Within classes being offered- I think she might find that very valuable and am going to suggest it, if they are still going on.

As her doula and her friend, is there anything else you would suggest that I can do, resource-wise, to help her regain her shattered confidence in normal birth? And is there a good list of questions to ask when interviewing a provider specifically with regard to VBAC, that I could direct her to? BTW, I don't think there are any area hospital providers here who won't insist on CEFM with a VBAC, IF they will take a VBAC at all. And CEFM starts us the road to more interventions... sigh.

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