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Reply To Topic Topic: Vaginal birth after 4th degree tear
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Posted By on 26 Jan 2009 05:08 PM

I had an epidural and episiotomy with my first child and ended up with a bad 4th degree tear.  I haven't had any more kids yet but I was talking with my new dr and they said definately schedule a C-section for the next delivery. I have done extensive research on the topic on the internet and I've read the same suggestion.

There is a reason why they gave an episiotomy in the first place, to make the baby come out more quickly and easily (and usually it's at the Dr's convenience).  If you don't want to risk further damage then most definately schedule a C-section.   If I would have known that I would have gotten a tear I would have just skipped natural birth all together.  It's one thing to get fulfillment from delivering your child naturally, but the irreversable damage that it caused I still live with to this day and it's had a major effect on my physical, mental and emotional health. My daughter got stuck behind my pubic bone and the dr broke her collarbone just to get her out of me. Does that sound like a good way for her to have entered this world?  Vaginal birth is not worth it.

 

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