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Reply To Topic Topic: Induction for high BMI
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Posted By on 17 May 2009 08:39 AM

Dear Henci,

Your advice was very helpful. Holding off on the induction at least through the weekend, I went into labor spontaneously on May 2nd--in the early morning hours. The two days prior I had tried numerous techniques to ripen the cervix/get labor going, including acupuncture--which I think did the trick.  You were right in saying my biggest problem was having a midwife who did not believe in my body's ability to birth. Luckily, I had the support of a wonderful doula who encouraged me to wait it out--reminding me that most first time moms average a gestation of 41 weeks and a day. May 2nd marked that average--I was pregnant 41 weeks and a day!  My doula stayed with me as I labored at home through the morning, helping me through hours of contractions.

We went to the hospital only when I felt it was absolutely time to have my baby.   When I went into the hospital, I was 8cm dilated, and had a different midwife deliver me. She and the team of nurses were kind, encouraging, and simply wonderful. I was not offered any drugs at any point during the birth.  I went to the hospital at 2:00 pm and my son Nathaniel was placed in my arms at 4:27pm.  I had a beautiful and merciful birth that I probably would not have realized if I had listened to the first midwife who said I would not go into labor spontaneously because of my high BMI.  I hope that this story helps encourage other curvy women to trust their bodies and not accept interventions that may be unnecessary and harmful.

 

Thank you so much!

Jenne Hayden

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