Thanks Henci,
Yes , re-reading the situation myself made me feel a little out of my own league! However since then I have found a doctor who is willing to be her back-up and he may even come for the home birth as we have now established that the baby is big enough and that the family situation is not as stressful.
She is off bed rest and very excited for a home birth. We shall see ...... If not, there is a hospital near-by.
The Canadian set up sounds like a dream.
In this country the doctors do not look favourably to home birth anymore as it has a bad reputation of un-skilled atendants and bad outcomes. I have helped a few fulfill their choice of a homebirth. Some of the "street-dwelling/slum" ladies I know don't want to go to hospital because it is a brutal and terrifying experience. The "richer" ladies don't want to go because there are no options of even a hot shower in most places and the interventions these days are too much.
I tread the fine line of going between the two and accompanying women in all circumstances to give birth and welcome their babies into the world. I admit to preferring homebirth these days..... Sometimes the hospital is a battle from start to finish!