I thought I'd offer some tips for helping labor progress with a bigger than average baby. But before I start, let me say that I, too, have birthed a big baby. My 3rd and last child (now 20 yrs old and all of 5"1" tall) weighed 9 lbs 4 oz. I weighed 115 lbs at the start of that pregnancy.
* Hire a doula. The emotional support she can offer both you and your partner and her ideas and suggestions can make a big difference.
* Don't induce labor so that the baby doesn't get "too big." The medical research does not report any benefits from this practice, and it increases the odds of c/sec. For that matter, don't schedule a c/sec either.
* Avoid admission to the hospital until you are established in active labor. The research suggests that women will have more medical intervention if they are admitted early in labor probably because somebody gets impatient because labor seems to be taking so long and decides to "do something." With a 1st baby, this will generally mean at least 1 hour of contractions no more than 5-min apart from the beginning of one to the beginning of the next one, at least 1-min long, and strong enough that you cannot walk or talk while having one. If you aren't sure of where you are and your ob's office is open, drop by and get checked. If it is after hours, go to the hospital but explain that you just want to be checked, not admitted. If you are still not sure whether to stay or go back home, hang around for an hour or two walking the halls and get re-checked.
* Have patience. Expect labor to take longer with a bigger baby. This means having a patient care provider who does not impose arbitrary time limits on how long you have to make progress.
* Plan on staying active in labor and pushing in an upright position. Getting gravity on your side and having mobility maximize your chances of getting the baby into the best position for birth and pushing the baby out on your own.
* Avoid an epidural. It will interfere with your ability to walk and change position, and it interferes with your ability to push effectively.
* Plan on using the "Gaskin Maneuver," the only obstetric technique named after a midwife, with your care provider. Sometimes, especially with bigger babies, the head emerges, but the shoulders hang up behind the pubic bone (shoulder dystocia). The best way to remedy this problem without any ill effects to baby or mother is to either have the woman give birth on her hands and knees or have her turn to her hands and knees should it occur. (This can, by the way, be done with today's modern, lighter epidurals.) Here is the abstract:
All-fours maneuver for reducing shoulder dystocia during labor
Here are some resources to help you with these goals:
Books:
The Official Lamaze Guide: Giving Birth with Confidence by J Lothian and C DeVries;
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by IM Gaskin;
Pregnancy, Childbirth and the Newborn by Simkin, Keppler, and Whalley.
Websites: Poke around this one, also the
Maternity Center Association website I mentioned in an earlier post. You will find a section on
How will I cope with labor pain? and one with info on
doulas too. If you are interested in the research on big babies and induction, you can go over to the
articles section of my personal website and scroll down to "Labor Induction: When a Big Baby Is Expected."
I hope you find this helpful, and let us know how everything goes.
-- Henci By: Henci Goer