I am absolutely thrilled for you! I know personally that an empowering birth experience can be a life-changing event--and that the reverse is also true.
I am sure your hands are full with your new baby and your older child, but if you can find the time, it might help others if you would write the hospital telling them how much it meant to you to have a flexible care provider who was willing to work with you and who respected your right to make informed decisions about your care.
-- Henci